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Friday, December 30, 2005

December 2005: At A Glance

I am a bad, bad blogger. I can't believe I haven't written anything in almost a month. My apologies.

Well, since my last post...

Brahim and I are no longer dating. We stopped talking for various reasons sometime near October, and we had absolutely no contact for about a month. Then he said he wanted to talk, and for the next month or so we were making and breaking plans to get together during the weekends. I finally saw him on his birthday, and we did talk, but we discussed our lives more than our relationship. We ended up having a pretty heavy make out session though, something that both Lisa and I had predicted. But then, a week after that, he went to Richmond with his friend and had a threesome with two girls. If I had any question as to what our "relationship" was, I think he made it pretty clear that night. I went to his place after he got back, to pick up a ring I had forgotten on his birthday, and he didn't even say anything. I haven't talked to him since. I was very angry and hurt for a few days, but life goes on.

I successfully completed my first semester at George Mason University on December 19th. It kinda feels official now, I'm a college student. It wasn't so bad, I'm still adapting but I think college and I will get along. And it's pretty damn sweet to have a month off, spring classes don't start until January 23rd.

I'm still working. I got a raise.

Lisa and I still go out a lot. The hooka bar is our new "home away from home", we go there at least once a week. It's a great place to just relax, talk, smoke a hooka, and have a drink - non-alcoholic of course. We're friends with the staff and the regulars, all older men from Middle Eastern countries. No girls - I like that a lot.

Sam and I celebrated the day we left for London exactly a year ago, December 26th, with dinner and a pedicure. We reminisced a little and talked a lot about our current lives and future plans. If everything goes as planned, Sam will be living in London this time next year, and I'll be over there visiting and celebrating the start of 2007.

Christmas was nice and quiet. I spent most of the weekend with Isabella and JonCarlos, my cousin Sara's babies. They are a handful, being only 16 and 5 months old, but they're also beautiful, adorable, and so very lovable. Even when they smell like poop and throw up on you.

The new year celebration should be wild and crazy and fun. Our family from New York is coming down, and they are famous for making great parties. We'll all spend the night at Sara's and probably drink, dance, and laugh our way into 2006. We might even go to the casinos in West Virginia, and I'll be able to go this year, although I'm not sure if I'll be allowed to gamble.

And now I want to self-tag myself from Sam's blog and list five strange things about myself in no particular order, because coincidentally I've recently been reminded of all the strange things about myself.

1. I am madly obsessed with Vick's Vapor Rub. Whenever I'm sick I use/overuse the ointment, the inhaler, and the decongestant nose spray. I just love how it smells. I used to have a humidifier that used Vick's as a kid, because I had mild asthma, so think I associate the smell to comfort and relief. But I love the stuff.

2. When it comes to men, I have a thing about hair. I like guys with shaggy hair, red hair, curly hair, facial hair, happy trails, leg hair, arm hair, chest hair...you get the idea.

3. I can't be in the same room with a pimple. If I know you, I will attack your pimple. It's gross I know, but I can't help it. The other day I popped my cousin's nose pimple, and it exploded onto my forehead and all over my fingers. Disgusting, but it was such a relief.

4. I can bend the top joint of my fingers. I used to think everyone could do it, but in middle school I realized I was wrong when I freaked out some classmates.

5. I can't think of anything else, so I have to steal one of Sam's, which also applies to me. I clean my room almost daily, everything is usually clean and organized, but my car is a mess. I think there are about 10 empty bottles and cans of various beverages in the back seat, I haven't washed it since the summer, and if it wasn't for the can of orange scented odor neutralizer I keep in there, who knows what it would smell like.

Thursday, December 01, 2005

About Me

I stole this from a friends' MySpace. I know they're silly, but I was in the mood. Enjoy!

Basics
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Time started: 10:54pm
Name: Mendy
Single or Taken: Single
Sex: Female
Birthday: 06/10/1987
Siblings: 1
Eye color: Dark Brown
Shoe size: 8 1/2-9
Height: 5' 3
Innie or Outie: Innie
What are you wearing right now: Old gym t-shirt and underpants
Where do you live: Alexandria
Righty or lefty: Righty

Relationships
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Who are your closest friends: Lisa, Sam, Jessica, Tyler, Brian.
Do you have a BF or GF?: Nope
If no, are you interested in anyone beyond friendship: Interested in friendship with a certain musician that maybe one day could go beyond.
Best place to go for a date: Old Town
Where is your favorite place to shop: Old Navy, Target, H&M, Hot Topic

Favorites
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Favorite kind of pants: Pajammies
Color: Yellow
Number: 3
Boys Name: Alexander
Girls Name: Elizabeth
Animal: Teddy Bears
Drink: Sweet Tea
Football: Patriots, Giants, Redskins
Basketball: Don't like it.
Hockey: CAPS!!!!
Month(s): June, October, December
Juice: Citrus Punch
Finger: Index
Breakfast: Pancakes
Favorite cartoon character: Spongebob!

Have You Ever
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Given anyone a bath: Yep.
Smoked: Uh huh.
Bungeed: Nope
Made yourself throw-up: Not on purpose, but I once chugged about a barrel of water because I was serverly dehydrated from a heavy night of drinking and barfed it all up and some more 3 seconds later.
Gone skinny dipping: Can fatties skinny dip? Lmao...no.
Eaten a dog: Not that I know of, but you never know.
Put your tongue on a frozen pole: Probably, that's something I would do.
Loved someone so much it made you cry?: Been so infatuated with someone it made you cry, yes.
Broken a bone: Nope.
Played truth or dare: Of course!
Been in a physical fight: Yep, I always get beat up!
Been in a police car: Nope.
Been on a plane: Yep.
Come close to dying: Nope.
Been in a sauna: Yep.
Been in a hot tub: Right after the sauna.
Swam in the ocean: Yep.
Fallen asleep in school: Oh yeah.
Ran away?: Nope.
Broken someone's heart: I don't think so.
Cried when someone died: Yes.
Cried in school: Yes.
Saved AIM conversations: Once upon a time.
Saved e-mails: Yep.
Fallen for one of your best friends? No.
Used someone: Yes.
Been cheated on?: Not that I know of, but you never know.

What is...
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Your good luck charm: I don't have one
Best song you ever heard: The Strokes "Reptilia" came to mind first, but there are so many "best ever" songs out there!
Stupidest thing you have ever done: Oh geez...
What's your room like: My life plastered all over the walls.
Last thing you said: "Yeah."
What's beside you? My trashcan...it says "dumped"
Last thing you ate: French Fries.
What kind of shampoo do you use?: Some snazzy salon stuff my mom brings home.
Best thing that has happened to you this year (2005): HAHA, EVERYTHING!!!! London, graduation, turning 18, making new friends.

Have you had...
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Chicken pox: Nope.
Sore Throat: All the time.
Stitches: Nope.
Broken nose: Nope

Other Stuff
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Do you believe in love at first sight: Yep.
If you were stuck on an island, what people would you want with you: Lisa, Leticia, and a hot man.
Who was the last person that called you: Leticia.
Who was the last person you slow danced with: Probably Lisa.
What makes you smile? Music.
Who is the last person you kissed?: Some crazy Morrocan dude.
Who broke your heart: Myself...I get a little too invovled sometimes in hopeless situations.
Who told you they loved you: My mom, Lisa, Tyler.
Is your loudest friend?: CHAUNCY, friend/cousin
Do you like filling these out: Yeah, they're fun.
Do you wear contacts or glasses: Contacts, I'm BLIND.
Do you get along with your family: Very much so. We're rock stars!!!
Stolen anything over $50: Nope.
Compulsive? No.
Anorexic? Haha, never.
Suicidal? Nope.

Final questions...
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What did you do yesterday: Went to school, went to Leti's, went to the mall, picked up my mom, went to Tysons Corner, shopped a little, came home, slept.
Hated someone in your family: Disliked, not hated.
Gotten any awards: Academic mostly, a few writing ones.
What car do you wish to have: One of those old VW vans with a bunch of fun stuff on the inside.
Where do you want to get married? In a church, but during the Fall.
If you could change something about yourself, what would it be?: My inability to "skinny" dip.
Good driver: Yes, I think so.
Good Singer: I wish.
Have a lava lamp: Nope.
How many remote controls are in your house: I don't know, 7?
Are you double jointed: My fingers are.
What do you dream about?: I have a lot of weird sex dreams with random people. Don't ask.
Last time you showered: This morning.
Last time you took a bath: Too long ago to remember.
The last movie you saw at the theatres: Hmmm..."Jarhead." FIELD FUCK!!!
Root Beer or Dr. Pepper: Root Beer.
Mud or Jello wrestling?: JELLO!
Vanilla or chocolate: Coffee.
Skiing or Boarding: Neither.
Summer or winter: Winter.
Silver or Gold: Gold.
Diamond or pearl: Pearl.
Sunset or Sunrise: Sunrise.
Sprite or 7up: Sprite.
Orange juice or apple juice: Apple.
Cats or dogs: Cats.
Coffee or tea: Coffee.
Phone or in person: Person!
Are you oldest, middle, youngest or only child: Oldest.
End time: 11:24